Late Nights, Long Queues: A Men's Guide to Staying Well Through Puja Week
By Ashtami, many of us are running on adrenaline, sweets and four hours of sleep. Puja week is built for staying out, and it is easy to arrive at Dashami exhausted, then wonder why the energy has gone.
You do not have to choose between the festival and feeling decent. A few small anchors make the difference.
Anchor your sleep
Late nights are part of the fun, so protect the other end of the day. Pick a wake-up time and keep it within an hour or so, even after a late evening. A steady wake time does more for your energy than any amount of lying in.
If you can, add a short nap of twenty minutes in the afternoon. Keep it short so it does not push your night later.
Walk like it matters
Pandal-hopping means hours on your feet, often in crowds. Wear shoes you trust, carry water, and plan stops. Sit down between pandals instead of pushing through. Tired legs lead to bad moods and shorter tempers, and the family notices.
Eat one proper meal a day
Between bhog, street food and mithai, it is easy to go a whole day without a real meal. Choose one meal, preferably the bhog or a home-cooked lunch, and make it your anchor. Dal, rice, vegetables and something fresh will carry you through the evening better than snacks alone.
Keep an eye on the extras
Festival evenings often come with more drinks, more food and more late nights than usual. There is no need to be strict, just to be aware. Alternate with water, stop before you feel you have overdone it, and know your own limits.
Check in with yourself and each other
Festivals can be loud, social and tiring all at once, and some men find the pressure to be cheerful the hardest part. Notice how you feel by the third evening. If you are irritable, flat or not sleeping, treat it as information, not weakness. A quiet evening or a conversation with a friend can help.
Plan the day after
Dashami and the days that follow are a good time to reset. Take it easy, drink water, get to bed early, and remember that anything that has been bothering you can wait for a calm conversation with a qualified doctor rather than a late-night search.
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Enjoy the festival, and look after yourself while you do.

